Once again I return to the real world, pulled away from the sureal visage of my future life with him. The weekend was wonderful. I didn't want it to end.
We enjoyed ourselves playing WoW, playing DDR, watching television together, talking, and just plan being together. It was so good to see his perfect form once again. We went to all the good restaurants that are opened during the early morning hours (meaning 1-5 am), along with my favorite restaurant, St. Louis Bread Co. (or Panera if you don't live in St. Louis), which isn't open then. I think my favorite part of the weekend was the driving around with him, chatting about this and that. I could talk to him for a hundred years straight and not get bored or run out of things to say. I miss him already.
On the day of my departure, I was doing fine. I wasn't going to cry. I made it past the hugs and kisses goodbye. I made it into my car and past watching him drive off to work. I made it past Six Flags...and then, for some reason, the song "I Miss You" by Blink 182 got me. I like that song a lot. I just burst into tears. Songs make me very emotional. I think the problem is that he is not someone else. He is not separate. We are together. When I leave his side it is as though someone has ripped half of my body away from me and left me to die as I lay in my own blood. I care little for others. No one matters. I never feel sad when I say goodbye to a friend or a family member, because there is no pain. With him, there is unending pain. I need him. I am pathetic and useless without him. We are one. Still, my happiness is without restraint because I know that he is mine and he loves me and I am his and I love him. This fact allows me to continue to function normally.
I've been doing a lot of thinking lately, about time. I want to be with him for eternity. I cannot allow myself to die. 100 years is not enough. I want more. I will live. I will will myself to live. I will not die. I keep thinking about how one day I simply will not exist. My mind will disappear and my body will rot in the ground. I will return to the nothing which I began from. I want to believe in an eternal soul. I formulated a theory which consoles me slightly.
I think about how I came to be me, to see through these eyes, to touch with these hands. I think, perhaps, it could be the assignment of a soul to this vessel, my soul. Then I think about the problems with a soul, like brain damage and the fact that there are more and more people every day. I answer myself with this. The soul is not the vessel. The vessel can be injured but the soul is intact, the memories, the feelings, the thoughts, but the vessel becomes unable to extend them into the physical world. They stil exist, but they are captured within the broken vessel. Thus, brain damage is not a problem. I can still believe. As for the reuse theory, I feel that souls come from an unending energy source, one which cannot be depleted. It is simply an energy that does not deal in the laws of science. It is an energy, perhaps, from a different plane. I believe that the soul exists within a spectral plane and is pulled into the physical plane by the creation of an orgainsm. As soon as the organism, the vessel, dies, the soul is released back into the spectral plane, changed by the experiences it's vessel went through. These are the things I tell myself so that I am not afraid, every single day, that my perfect, wonderful life will be cut short by some freak accident. I want my soul to be eternal. I want there to be something more. If only I was stupid. If only I did not have the brain power to ponder such things in detail. If only the Bible could hold more sway over me. If only...
Well, enough of that serious stuff. Tomorrow is 2.99 Tuesday at the ol' Subway and I close. I need my rest. Plus, I cleaned apartments with my mom today (yesterday?) so I am especially tired. I must end this post with a suggestion:
Do as you would if you knew you would die in under a month. You never know if that is the case.
P. S. Sorry this one was so sad, but I can't help it. My only fear in the entire world is death and that is what I wrote it on. Of course it's going to be sad.
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